Have I wasted my time?

So, I spent some time learning how to give my hubby a hot azzzz lap dance, and some Jack AZZZ told me that was stupid, cuz a hubby don't want to see his wifey strip, he can just go to the strip club...well, I go to the strip club with my hubby, and I'm here to tell you he is WAY more into ME getting lap dances, than him, but I thought since he is so kind and spends all the money on me there, i would give him a special lap dance at home...so now this guy tells me i've wasted my time...have i?