Having a baby, or boot camp?.?

I'm sixteen years old, but I would be seventeen by the time that the baby is born. My parents are trying to send me to a six month bootcamp because of my attitude and grades. However, I have been bringing them up. At the end of June my dad and his wifey are going off to buy a lake house and I will most likely be stuck going to the National Gaurd Academy. This really scares me, because my boyfriend and I are actually really serious about each other compared to most people our age. He is eighteen. If I move he would be living two hours away from me. He's my other half, I don't know what I would do without him and we would do anything to just be together. I know my mother would help out and let him move in just until we could get on our own two feet. This baby would be a love child, because that's why we would be having it because we're two people who just are better off with each other and this baby would be our world.<3. My mother is a stay at home mom so I would have a babysitter, and we are both going to community colleges after highschool to get our degrees. I can't leave him, and I definitely couldn't survive boot camp. What should I do?