Why wont he take us getting married seriously?

Well see now you made the mistake of getting pregnant before he married you. He feels there is no rush to marry you because you already have a child together so what’s the rush. He has no intentions on getting married to you anytime soon. He will say something like he’s still crushed because of what happened to him in the past. No he’s not. I mean if he really was than he wouldn’t have made a child with you. He is leading you on. The advance in his job is to take care of his child. Technically you and he are just baby daddy and baby mama. Does a "wifey" at home mean your unemployed? Well see your answering your own questions in your paragraph. You're giving him everything so there's no reason to marry you. I'm sorry but you showed him that your of no value if he gets married to you. Basically you showed him it’s cheaper to just be your baby daddy instead of a husband. Sounds to me he has no problems committing to having a child with you but getting married is another issue. I wouldn't bring it up to him anymore. Honestly how long are you going to stay a girlfriend? If this man doesn't marry you what will you do next? I sure hope that when he gets his advance that he takes you to put a ring on a payment plan. If he doesn't than you know that it's time for you to STOP being an at home wifey and handle your business. Good Luck!