Found out my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating and now im the other woman. please give me advice 2 get over it?

You have just been played. It sucks, I know. You see do you don't want faithful men, because you'd be dating nice guys. Don't say your man is a nice guy because you know he's not. Do you want to know who will not cheat on you and treat you with dignity? I will tell you. You see that male friend(that is straight) that pays attention and consoles you and understands you. That's him. If you really don't want to get cheated on than you know where to go.