So would would happen if i decided to get a perm without telling my gf?

So all you females out there with your stupid double standards that got mad at the guy who said he was upset that his girlfriend didn't even discuss with him that she was getting her hair drastically cut. I guess it would be okay then If you were with me and I had an afro but decided to get a straight perm without telling you, this would be okay? That its okay that I didn't tell you and now look like a girl with my straight hair? Would you still want to be seen with me?! I don't think damn so. So why the hell is it okay that a guy is concerned about you and the fact that a true relationship is based off trust and communication and he wants to be included in some choices you make but you deride and demean him like a nasty little feminist thinking he wants to "control" you by telling you he just wished you would have told him about what you were doing but yet you can "control" him if you reacted the same way! Dumb feminist! Jump off a bridge. I hope you all know that no man is going to marry your azz if you think "because its my body I can do whatever I want". Such as cutting off and dying your hair. Dummies. In marriage, you communicate and tell each other everything and if you don't communicate, its not going to f-ing last and you'll be broke and lonely and widowed by the time 1+1=2. A man and woman together in any relationship tell each other everything. No one is forcing you to do anything. You just learn to communicate and be a real f-ing wifey.